How to Choose the Right Sex Toy
You’ve been contemplating getting a sex toy but you don’t know where to start. Relax! Top Drawer Toys is here to guide you through how to choose a vibrator with this brief guide to sex toys for beginners.
We believe that your sexual health is well served by a sex toy and that everyone should have at least one! And we also believe that purchasing your first sex toy should be fun and not intimidating. So, let us hold your hand and guide you through the sex toy wilds of the internet! Let’s start at the very beginning, which is what gets your motor running!
Pleasure Mapping
A roadmap of what turns you on is about getting to know yourself! Pleasure mapping is a way of locating erogenous zones on your body and discovering secret sites of erotic response. There is nothing more empowering than knowing your body deeply, especially if you’re on the cusp of purchasing a sex toy. Knowing your body and what you expect from sex toys are essential requirements for vibrator beginners.
In 3 steps, you can begin to draw your personal pleasure map to understand how to choose a vibrator by understanding your sexual response:
- Stop thinking of your body as something that “contains” you. Rather, think of it as the material expression of who you are. This allows you to connect fully with your physical senses intentionally and mindfully.
- Adults play, too and sex is a big part of it. That’s why they’re called sex toys! Take time to talk to your body and to hear its responses. Your sexuality, when turned toward yourself, is a sensual journey. The dialogue between self-touch/self-pleasure and your knowledge of where you want to be touched creates intimacy with yourself. This is the basis for shared intimacy. It starts with you.
- If you already have a sex toy, you can use that to aid your explorations. If not, you can simply use your hands to discover erogenous zones, sensitive locations, and surprise triggers. Take your time, connect with your pleasure, and get to know your erotically charged body. How to choose a vibrator starts with knowing your body!
Sex Toys for Beginners
Now that you have a better idea about how and where your body is erotically triggered, let’s look at some practical considerations you need to factor into your selection process.
Materials
I’m going to cut to the chase here and suggest that you forget about any material except silicone. Silicone is a body-safe material that’s non-porous, easy to clean, and won’t irritate your sensitive skin and soft tissue. Nothing kills the mood like a rash! And you’ll find that silicone toys are now much more affordable than they’ve ever been. How to avoid skin reactions from sex toys is to choose a silicone vibrator.
Privacy
Discretion is important for many who are beginners at using sex toys. If you’d rather keep your erotic explorations private, then make sure you investigate how noisy the motor for your preferred sex toy is.
How to assure your privacy is to choose a vibrator with whisper-quiet operation. Also, make sure that your new acquisition is discreetly stashable. And don’t forget about shipping. Does your vendor assure secure shipping that doesn’t give away the contents of your package on delivery? Make sure to check the vendor’s shipping policies.
Versatility
Newbies and beginners to sex toys may be purchasing for the purpose of solo sex, which is great! Knowing yourself is the best gift of all! But remember that you may want, at some point, to invite a friend over to play. So look for a toy with versatility.
Does your sex toy have a remote control? Is it water-resistant? Can it be used hands-free? Look for features that provide versatility that accommodate a playmate or new horizons. You’re growing! Choose a vibrator that’s ready for how you’re going to evolve sexually.
A Revolution in Pleasure
Top Drawer Toys has engineered the revolutionary Box Rocker to deliver pleasure like you’ve never experienced before. This versatile buddy is for beginners but also for everyone who seeks pleasure conformed to their unique desires. Features rich, this personalizable powerhouse is whisper quiet, weighing under 2 pounds!
Set vibration mode, thrust depth, and thrust speed for a custom experience. With Box Ricker’s versatility, you’re in command. And with its remote control, a playmate can provide the element of surprise! Strap Box Rocker on with the included strap or take it in the shower for good, clean, water-resistant fun! Get to know Box Rocker. Choose a vibrator that knows how to rock your world!