Pegging 101 for Beginners
It’s no surprise that people are curious about pegging. The practice turns the penetrative tables, putting those without a penis in the driver’s seat. That’s a hint, if you’re not clear on the concept of pegging! Pegging’s popularity has increased so much in recent years that it’s 2023’s “fetish” of the year! The latter half of 2022 led to a tremendous spike in interest for reasons I’ll share with you momentarily!
In this post, we’ll give you the pegging for beginners 411, including how to peg. But let’s start with the basics of this electrifying sexual practice and answer the question, “What does pegging mean?”
What Does it Mean?
Pegging is penetrative sex in which a woman wears a strap-on sex toy with her male partner receiving. It’s anal sex with a decided twist! And it’s a twist that many men are curious about, especially in light of rumors regarding Great Britain’s Prince of Wales, known since 2022 as “the Prince of Pegging”. Whether those rumors are true or not, the rumor has generated considerable interest among male heterosexuals, having raised the practice’s profile materially. That’s especially true since the latter half of 2022, following the revelation of the Prince’s rumored proclivities.
And so pegging beginners, for what it’s worth, now have a high profile mascot. Now that you know what “pegging” means, let’s talk about adding it to your sexual repertoire!
Why Pegging?
The male prostate, when stimulated, can be the source of powerful orgasms. And this gland is only accessible through the anus. Despite heterosexual male anxiety about receiving anal sex, some of them have discovered the joy of pegging. They’ve found out that what pegging means is mind-melting orgasms. And that does it for them!
Roughly equivalent to the Skene’s gland in women, the prostate gland is located under the bladder, directly adjacent to the rectum. The walnut-sized prostate can be stimulated via the rectum, producing orgasms worthy of the Prince of Wales! For beginners, pegging is a new sexual frontier offering princely rewards for the bold.
Pegging for Beginners Lesson #1: It’s Not “Gay”
Unless the penis going in your back door is attached to a man, there is nothing “gay” about pegging. You’re using a strap-on, worn by a woman. That’s first.
Second, having your anus penetrated, even with a finger, is the only way to get to the prostate gland. Every man has such a gland as part of his reproductive system. If you’re interested in finding the “G-Spot”, why wouldn’t you be interested in finding the equivalent in your own body? Why not enjoy it? Beginners who are new to pegging are in for a genuine treat!
Every part of your body is to be enjoyed as you see fit and the back door is no exception. Human sexual practices are not “gendered”. They are human sexual practices that everyone can enjoy as they see fit. So, banish any anxiety around the presumed gayness of anal sex when the male is the receiver. There’s a fabulous reward awaiting you for your courage – a thundering orgasm That’s what pegging means! It most certainly does not mean you are gay or doing “something gay”. Boldly go there without anxiety!
What Pegging Beginners Need for the Maiden Voyage
If you’re brand new to any kind of anal penetration, it might be worth investing in a set of anal training butt plugs. These slowly and safely increase your “bandwidth” until you’re prepared to take a strapon. From small to “strapon ready”, using a training set can help you learn to relax the anal sphincter’s muscles. Used with plenty of lube, you’ll be good and ready when it’s time for your pegging closeup.
Experiment with your training butt plugs, wiggle them around to see if you can find your prostate. Once you feel more comfortable, lube up a finger and explore. You’ll know it when you’ve found the P-spot and you’ll be surprised at the amount of sensation this tiny powerhouse generates when stimulated. As you’re discovering, pegging means that what you know about anal sex doesn’t even tell half the story!
A Partner Ready to Ride
Be aware that not all women are comfortable with the practice and that’s their prerogative. But you’ll need a partner who’s ready to ride.
If your partner’s GGG (good, giving, game – another Dan Savageism), you’re in luck. Pegging for beginners is always best practiced with sensitivity to every step of the process, so stay connected with the crystal-clear communication that results in jaw-dropping sexual encounters.
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