4 Dildo Use Tips to Increase Your Pleasure
No one’s born knowing the dildo techniques that provide the most bang for your buck! Like reading a book or riding a bike, optimizing your sex toy experience is an acquired skill.
There are vibrators of all shapes, sizes, materials, colors, and functionalities. But your personal preferences and erogenous zones are what really matter. At Top Drawer Toys, we understand that your sex toy has the potential to enhance your sexual health and self-knowledge exponentially. So, let’s dive in to read about some key tips and techniques to increase your pleasure.
1. Think Outside the Dildo Use Box
In any discussion about the use of vibrators, the first thing that comes to mind is, of course, penetration. But penetration isn’t the only kind of pleasurable experience you can have with a sex toy, no matter who you are.
The human body is a playground of erogenous “hot spots”, ripe for the application of dildo techniques. So, knowing where your erogenous hot spots are, ups the ante. While some claim, as in this 2020 study, that the entire human body is an erogenous zone of varying intensities, we all have our favorites. You may be surprised by the locations of some sensually-attuned hot spots. It’s important to understand, when considering the idea that our whole body is one vast erogenous zone, that touch is a huge component of pair bonding. Paired or not, your friendly vibrator can simulate human touch in interesting ways.
Before you explore your body with your dildo, use a dab of lube to avoid skin drag. Close your eyes and engage with the sensations you’re experiencing. Dildo techniques that focus on areas other than the genitals can teach you so much about your sexual response. Explore with a partner and double your sexual understanding and sensual vocabulary.
2. Don’t Rush
Just because you’ve got the turbo sex toy does not imply that you should go “turbo” in under 60 seconds. Cool your jets, lovers. You can’t rush passion. When using a sex toy you’re engaged in the pursuit of total sexual pleasure, not just an orgasm. Your dildo use should reflect that.
Learning to slow down and wait for the punchline is worth the price of admission. Being impatient about reaching orgasm creates needless tension. Tension is not one of our 5 dildo techniques. Tension is what sex dispels. So be patient. Spend all the time you need to know your true sensual capacity and be richly rewarded. This is not wasted time, so lavish abundant time using your vibrator to enhance your sexual health. Don’t rush.
3. Dildo Use Demands Lube Use
To protect yourself from unintended tears in the lining of the anus and vagina, it’s essential that you use a lube appropriate to your sex toy. Discomfort is not the effect you’re going for, so keep it handy.
And remember – lube is fun! Not just for penetration, lube (see tip #1) adds deliciously slippery sensations to other parts of your body and prevents the vibrator from dragging against your skin. There are so many lubes on the market from flavored to heating, in numerous formulations. Why not put lube to work full-time as the star of your sensual dildo techniques repertoire?
4. Creative Dildo Use
Creativity is friend to all, transforming everything we do. Using a sex toy is no different. The way you relate to your vibrator physically is part of the creative impulse. Don’t believe, for a moment, that sexuality isn’t creatively driven. Evidence to the contrary is everywhere! Sexual energy and creativity are natural companions, so harness these buddies!
Knowing your body and creatively interacting with your sex toy liberates you to derive the most possible pleasure from its use. Playing with positions, pressure, vibrations, and hot spots are all creative ways to discover your lesser-known sensual corners and your personal collection of techniques and hot spots – the ones that send your right through the roof!
Bonus Tip: Meet Box Rocker
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We invite you to find out more about Box Rocker and its wealth of customizable features. Here’s to your robust sexual health!